Dear Marlee and Hayden:

19/08/25 09:40
IMG_5876August 23, 2025 (Vol. 19 No. 32) - Today is a very special day. If it wasn't for what happened on this date 50 years ago, you would not be here. For it was on August 23, 1975, that I married your mother's mom - a person you know as Grandma Jan. The photo above shows that moment, taken at the Catholic church in Hawesville, Kentucky. As your mother has told you, Grandama Jan was a very special person. Jan was very smart, determined and kind. When she passed away in March 2007, I received more than 100 sympathy cards. Practically every one mentioned her smile. Her enthusiasm for life was there for all to see. And when it came to her family, immediate and extended, she was incredibly loyal. As one who married into the Fillman family - a "Fillman Outlaw" - I really appreciated that. (FYI - Because your mother was born a Fillman, you are considered "Fillman In-Laws.") Of course, I am sad that your Grandma Jan is no longer with us. But she continues to live through your mother and you - and I know that she is so very proud of you. It is also important for you to know how blessed you are to have your Grandma Carla and Grammie Maureen. They are two very special women from whom you can, and undoubtedly will, learn a lot. When it comes to Grammie, I consider myself blessed to have found everlasting love in my life for a second time. That I miss Grandma Jan does not diminish that. On this very special day, I ask that you think of your third Grandma. She may not be there with you here on Earth, but is surely casting a loving embrace on you from heaven. That's it for now. Happy Heavenly Anniversary. And Fear the Turtle.